When I started this blog some 9 years ago (good grief) the main goal was to practice writing. If I could somehow amuse my family and friends then that was a bonus. If I could force them to continue to read without amusing them (as I’ve managed to do), then that was like a super double bonus plus! Go loyalty! The focus or theme or what have you was to write-up anecdotes using the style I’ve always used – the “style” (I really feel that need some air-quotes) being how I tend to write letters (now emails) to friends. I’m all over the place – like this paragraph. They never minded that bit, seemed to encourage it at times, “you write like you speak,” and thus you suffer. Shake your head at them.
I’ve been waiting for a good anecdote to share, but unfortunately an interesting one hasn’t really risen up. I suspect it’s because I travel in the wrong circles. That’s right friends, I’m calling you out – you and your clear lack of “right” circle-ness. There’s a geometry joke in there. Ok, sure there was the one guy at the Humane Society last week. His fit-pitching was fairly epic as I waited patiently(ish) to ask about a fluffy sole who was clearly calling to me behind the glass, but again not much of a story since I walked out without being helped. His fit had reached a new exciting blend of frustration and confusion over some fairly simple rules. (For the record, Humane Society rules are just not that hard, guy! You don’t have a permanent place for a cat. One day you will, but that’s not today.) I also managed to smash a joint on my thumb on the same day. I keep insisting it’s purple and at least five times bigger than it was earlier in the day only to be asked by these so-called friends while comparing the thumbs side-by-side, “which thumb is it?” Uh, the big purple one! (It’s purple on the inside?) It still smarts – probably nerve damage. It will likely have to be removed. Sadly, it happens to be the thumb I hit the space bar with. Soon my writing will be devoid of spaces. Iapologizeinadvance.
So, in light of this writing lull and to keep practicing (because after 9 years there hasn’t been any noticeable progress) I’ve resolved to write an autobiography of sorts. I know, right? Some of history’s most famous and infamous people have them and now we can add famous, infamous and Beth. It’s a literary milestone.
I’ll start off slow. I don’t want to completely overwhelm you with the life and times of the lower middle-class all at once – the adventures of a monolingual speaker who has barely escaped the borders of their state much less the country. Hey, there was that time I went to Canada. Boy, talk about culture shock! Loonies and toonies – where do they come up with that stuff?
Let’s start at the very beginning. A very good place to start. (So I’m reminded in song.)
I was born. At least that’s what I’ve been told, and as proof I’ve been presented various papers and a book with a few photos documenting the event. It’s all rather convenient and a bit suspicious if you ask me. Some of the photos show these youthful kidults who I can confirm did grow up to be my parents. They look a bit tired in the earlier pictures. I’m told they remained that way for approximately 18 years and then something inexplicable happened that made them look and feel lighter. I’ve never been able to identify precisely what changed, but it must have been fairly important. Although, I admit I’ve seen the weight return over the years, which oddly corresponded with some big things in my life. Must be some sort of weird symbiotic thing.
Both of my parents were from Dallas. Mom from Highland Park and Dad from South Oak Cliff. If you’re familiar with Dallas, you understand the significance. If you’re not, then to sum it up – Mom was born on the right side of the tracks (in fact those tracks aren’t even Dallas tracks, they’re tracks in their own city within Dallas) and Dad was born on the very wrong side of the tracks. I later learned that many of Dad’s (and his family’s) numerous shortcomings had to do with his tracks (those shortcomings multiplied x10 each year post their divorce). I learned from Dad that people from the right side of the tracks (aka “your mother”) tended to marinate Spam in a lovely Dr. Pepper based sauce. Dad wasn’t particularly good at lobbing insults.
I’m not really sure what initially drew them together. Mom would say she thought Dad was smart, but was proven wrong; he was only social climbing – tricked her by claiming to read books. Clever guy! Dad said something along the lines of Mom was really nice and fun. Bless his heart.
I’m personally from a trailer park in West Dallas. Well, that’s probably not true. My parents were both attending school when I was born, and I’m told we lived in Arlington. There are more pictures that they claim prove we lived there, but we could be any place, and I find these people somewhat sketchy. I mean can you really trust Mr. Illiterate Wrong Tracks and his Jolly Dr. Pepper Spam eating bride? (Just think, I am the product of that union; it actually explains so much about my personality and my humor?)
Quick disclaimer to stop any gasping: I absolutely would tease my parents in this way. In fact, I’m teasing Dad now. Dad, you’re welcome! To post a retort, I guess you’ll need to work on that new blog of yours. Now you have incentive. You’re welcome, part two.
Next up, the trailer park! (In other words, I’m cutting this short and giving you a small reprieve. There’s only so much “me” one should be forced to sit through in one day.) And I’ll leave you with a little Julie Andrews, because I stupidly got this song stuck in my head where it is now firmly lodged. I only have myself to blame.
(July 24, 2018) Addendum/post scriptum/what-have-you: I’m not really sure what magic button I hit which altered the course of this piece from “post” to “page,” but here it stands alone instead of stuffed among many entries. I can’t tell when it was written. Sure, it was before 7/24/18 (oh, you’re good!), and I can tell it was pre-Dad’s blog, but I don’t see any other hints that will get me to roughly the right time. I see I promised stories about the trailer park, but who knows if they were ever told.. Perhaps, I’ll go back and see. If I haven’t, maybe there’s a story there. I don’t recall where I was going to go with that idea, but I can imagine. Like the Beth of yesteryear, I too remember a few of those trailer park stories. In fact, if you dare to find my first post, you’ll get a taste of what trailer park living was about in the early 70’s. Just look for a story about the ice cream man.
Until the next piece, my friend. I hope this one found you well.